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August 14, 2007

Try Something Completely Different

provided by Jeff Williams Read more adventures, articles, inner growth, inner harmony, and new ideas
 
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Sometimes in life you feel like you’re in a rut. To help yourself through this period, go out and do something about it. More than just doing something, which is a bit aimless, do something really different. The reasoning behind this is simple: It wakes up your mind and makes you see life from a new perspective. And this, in turn, makes you feel more alive.

Here's a good example — say you’re a person with a steady, long-term office job and a fairly sedentary life. Then, out of nowhere, someone suggests that you take up weight lifting. Your first reaction is likely to be, “Why would I want to do that?”

You may not want to lift weights, but once you start it you might discover that it’s so far removed from your daily routine that it provides new stimulation. Besides, weight lifting is extremely good for strengthening bones and toning muscles.

Gain a new perspective

Doing something totally different in your life gives you a new perspective. It’s a bit like driving along the usual way home, accidentally making a wrong turn, and finding a whole new and pleasant neighborhood.

Of course, the wrong turn could lead into a really unpleasant neighborhood where you think you were lucky to get out alive. Regardless, recalling the experience might still amaze and thrill you months later. It may provide party conversation too. That’s because you did something different.

We are all aware that doing the same thing over and over can be maddening. But often we do just that without realizing it. We drive to work each day the same way and drive home the same way. Talk to the same people at work, and too often about the same stuff. Eat the same kind of meals, with minor variations, day after day. Watch the same boring television.

Where to start?

Getting started, particularly with something new, is the most difficult part. So here is a straightforward guide on how to begin making real changes to your life.

  • First, stop and think. Write down aspects of your daily life that seem too repetitive.
  • Second, list some changes you would like to make in that routine. Put down everything you think of. You can sort them out later.
  • Third, sort through your ideas and narrow them down.
  • Fourth, decide what you are going to do that is very different. Set a goal.
  • Fifth, do it.

Get creative with your life

Doing something different increases your creativity and that, in turn, increases your productivity. Here are some ideas for you to consider. As you read through them, some may appeal to you, others won’t. Make notes on more ideas that are likely to come to you as you go along.

  • Go a whole day as if you are left-handed, or vice versa if you are a lefty. Things you would do on autopilot with your right hand you now have to stop and think about first. It’s awkward, but that's the point: Doing something different makes you think.
  • Cook a new type of cuisine for a week. Have others try it with you.
  • Rent foreign films. Watch them with various friends.
  • Read a book you don’t think you will like. Discuss it with others.
  • Take a local college course in Egyptology. Or mathematics. Or anything.
  • Be a volunteer.
  • Take up dancing.
  • Swim three times a week.
  • Start jogging.
  • Invite someone you would like to know better for tea or coffee.
  • Shave in a different pattern each morning.
  • Wear a weird shirt.
  • Take classes on yoga, or tai chi, or karate.

Go for it. You will be glad you tried it.


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  1. User_48
    katrinag 8 months ago

    Started a volunteer position today, which will be at least twice a month.
    Restarted swimming laps at the Y today. Tomorrow will attend hula hooping aerobics and ballroom dancing aerobics at the Y. Am very excited about this!

  2. New_york_and_bermuda_aug
    carly800 8 months ago

    Awesome!

  3. User_48
    dkswedin 8 months ago

    I went winter camping this past wkend in VT – 2 nights in 15 degree weather – tons of snow – something I haven’t done in prob 8 years or so…pulled out all the old equipment – very exhilarating!! Now, I just have to build off the experience and not head right back to the couch…

  4. User_48
    drcameo13 10 months ago

    Three months ago I found the courage after being inspired by the Kashi family to get adventurous my family and some coworkers visited Disney World new destination park which features the Zip Line,Jungle Trek,Kayaking,Balloon Rides,Adventures into the wild,and River Villages just to name A few it was the thrill of a lifetime, one I will never forget.

  5. San_diego_020
    amyers about 1 year ago

    My knees weren’t enjoying jogging anymore so I started to swim. I LOVE it. Swimming is so relaxing. I recommend it to anyone with joint issues looking for a low impact exercise.

  6. San_diego_020
    amyers about 1 year ago

    Shave in a new pattern, I love it! I bought some fun nail polish. It was simple but changed my attitude. courtney86, I used to come home exhausted every night, too. I started exercising and it changed my energy level. Exercise is completely worth it!

  7. Dsc02009
    Natatomic about 1 year ago

    tj, i understand your sarcasm. I was thinking the same idea. “Shave in a new pattern” ?? All I could think of was OUCH!

  8. Me
    courtney86 about 1 year ago

    I need help getting out of daily routine too. I guess my job just mentally drains me and by the time i get home or on weekends i don’t really feel like doing anything and thats the problem!

  9. User_48
    Bonzi over 2 years ago

    This sounds like a good thing to do. Any thing to get out of a rut.

  10. Ka19
    tjthompson over 2 years ago

    Shave in a different pattern each morning?
    Wear a weird shirt?

    CRAZY! DARING!